Why It’s Okay to Desire MORE and How it will Transform the Way you See Yourself
Have you ever felt guilty or wrong for wanting MORE?
More money, more time, more freedom, more from your relationships…
WHY do we feel like it’s selfish or frowned upon to desire MORE?
I’ll tell you why... Our conditioning.
Do you recognize any of these statements? ⬇️
- It could be so much worse, so you better be grateful for what you have.
- There are starving kids in Africa - just eat what is on your plate and be happy.
- More money = more problems.
- Stop daydreaming and be thankful for what’s in front of you.
- We don’t talk about money - it’s impolite to ask about that.
I heard all of those things so many times as a child - it’s no mystery as to why it took a lot of inner work (and continued work) to breakthrough those beliefs and allow myself to shout it from the rooftops:
IT’S OKAY TO WANT MORE FROM YOUR LIFE!!
Our soul is innately driven to evolve and is constantly desiring more. Everything in our being is guiding us towards expansion and growth, but when we shut it down because of guilt or past beliefs that we are stuck to, we are directly telling our soul that we don’t trust what it desires.
If you are ready to reframe your beliefs around the desire for more - start here:
✅ Recognize that your desires are simply your soul’s way of telling you what your life’s purpose and direction is - and that it is a GOOD thing.
✅ Release the resentment you hold for past family members or people of influence in your childhood who made you feel like you needed to just be grateful for what you had.
✅ Validate your own feelings and desires. There tends to be a lot of programming (especially in religion) that says having desires is wrong. Once you allow yourself to simply have the emotion or desire (whether you act on it or not) will create a lot more peace and freedom in your life.
When you find purpose in our desires, THAT is when you will become free to truly live as your authentic self.
If you are a business owner or are looking to start the entrepreneurial journey - you need to realize that the guilt that comes from wanting more will be a direct blockage to your revenue goals.
Read that again… When you shut down your desire for more with guilt or negative self-talk, you are directly blocking your business from increasing its revenue 😅
Many of you are telling yourself the story that it’s time to be content with where you are. Instead, start telling yourself the story that “I am grateful for where I am now - AND I am excited to receive [INSERT YOUR GOAL HERE].”
It is more than just okay to want more - it is a beautiful part of this human experience. It gives us the spark we need to fuel a passion that will create an impact.
How boring would it be to experience the same thing forever and ever? Nah, man! You are here to experience life to its FULLEST capacity.
In case you need to hear it…You have the permission to desire more and map out exactly how you want to get there!
As an entrepreneur - getting more leads and sales is typically top of mind because you desire to GROW. That’s a good thing!
If that’s you right now, I encourage you to step into my Soulful Selling 4-Week Immersion where we will uncover:
✅The New Paradigm of Selling
✅Knowing your Worth
✅Communicating our Value
✅How to Close the Sale
You will walk away feeling so confident in your offer and your ability to sell it - even if you don’t even know what that offer is right now!
Let’s go live this life with the passion our soul ignites!
Ben | The Fear Guy
